Trevor Hartley McHarg
On August 14, 2025, with the love of his family surrounding him, Trevor Hartley McHarg’s courageous battle with cancer came to a peaceful close. Born on December 2, 1967, in Listowel, Ontario, to Hartley and Marlene McHarg, Trevor grew up in Clifford—a small town with a big part of his heart—and it remained his anchor through nearly every chapter of his life.
As a boy, Trevor lived for the sound of skates cutting the ice, the crack of a bat, the thud of a hockey puck against the boards. A natural athlete, he shone brightest when the game was on the line. In high school, he wore the Walkerton Black Hawks jersey—known for his skill, his grit, and, at times, his visits to the penalty box. It was always best to have your stick on the ice and Trevor on your side. In October 1988, Trevor answered a higher calling, joining the Canadian Armed Forces.
After battle school in March 1989, he became part of the Third Regiment, Royal Canadian Horse Artillery, G Battery. There were moments he never forgot—such as an exercise in Cambridge Bay, Nunavut, in 1989, the bitter cold biting through layers of uniform and resolve. In 1991, he completed the Combat Leadership Course in Wainwright, Alberta, before joining the Observation Post, where his steady voice called fire to the guns. Later, he served at Regimental Headquarters Battery in intelligence. In 1992, he wore the blue beret of the United Nations, serving as a peacekeeper in Cyprus—And always, wherever he was posted, there was hockey—from battery leagues to Strong Contender, where the best of the best in the Forces battled on Calgary ice. After the military, Trevor built new skills with the same determination. He worked as a welder and fabricator, and in his fifties, achieved his millwright journeyman certification. He thrived in the trades, mentoring newcomers, passing on lessons learned through hard work and patience.
To know Trevor was to love him. He was loyal, warm-hearted, and unhurried in giving his time. Friends became family, and family was everything.
Seventeen years ago, fate brought back his teenage sweetheart, Wanda. Together they built a life filled with love, laughter, adventure, and travels that spanned the world. But nothing matched the pride and joy Trevor felt as a father. His four children—and their partners—were his greatest treasures: Kyleena and Mike Bujold, Michael McHarg and Dan Pollock, Madison Gillis and Sam Kierinkiewicz, and Liam Gillis. They remain his brightest legacy, the part of him that will live on forever. Trevor is survived by his devoted wife, Wanda; his sister, Melanie McHarg (Steve Pizzey); his brother, Troy McHarg; his mother-in-law, Sandra Wilhelm; his sister-in-law, Elaine Fisher (Mark); his brother-in-law, Brad Aljoe; and many nieces and nephews. He also leaves behind his faithful four-legged companions, Gracie Grey and Millie Beth. He is reunited now with those who went before him—his parents, Marlene and Hartley McHarg; his father-in-law, David Aljoe; his stepfather-in-law, Leonard Wilhelm; and his sister-in-law, Joanne Stewart.
A celebration of Trevor’s life will be held Saturday, September 27, 2025, from 1:30 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at the Clifford Community Hall. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Wounded Warriors Canada (WWC). https://woundedwarriors.ca/donate/
Wanda and Family.
Please accept my Condolence in the passing of Trevor.
Jeff Borland
A great cousin , one who will be missed. Our families condolences to yours.
- Linda Duncan OliverWanda and family We are so sorry for your loss love Doug and Donna
- Doug and Donna braithwaiteWanda and Family, So very sorry for your loss, my sincere condolences to you all
- Marlene LipskieWanda and family. Trevor was a good friend and hockey partner. I have many fond memories of Trevor and the McHarg family. Trevor and I were defence partners. My dad John and Trevor's dad Hartley coached us, I remember many visits to the McHarg farm, which consisted of over night stays, helping Hartley with the pigs and boxing with both Trevor and Troy, yes boxing, they had boxing gloves and we used them! Maybe my favourite would be driving the Arctic Cat Snowmobile, pretty sure it was a Lynx, l remember dragging Troy around all over the farm with a long rope and toboggan trying to flip him off, man we had a lot of fun growing up together. My wife Sandy and I ride Arctic Cats today. I will miss you my good friend. To the McHarg family, celebrate Trevor, stay positive and march on, he wouldn't want it any other way, Sincerely, Patrick and Sandy Turner
- Patrick and Sandy TurnerMy condolences to the McHarg family. All my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time. I have known the family for years. When we lose a fella Clifford family member we all feel the pain.
- Mark RoswellRest good Gunner Rest
- Fredrick LAFORGEDear Wanda and family, Reg and I are saddened to hear this news. We hope that your grief is soon a loving memory of the love and laughter that you both shared. Hugs dear friend.
Thinking about the entire family during this very difficult time. Sending love and strength to Wanda and the kids. Trevor was a large presence in this life and he was most definitely a gift to anyone who knew him. I am so sorry for your loss.
- Mary-Jo TedfordVery shocked and saddened to hear of Trevor's passing. It has been a while since our paths have crossed but I always enjoyed the chat's. Condolences to all his family and friends.
- Dennis & Sherry KaufmanOh Wanda he was your tenderhearted “tough guy” whose kindness would melt stone. He is truly missed already.
- Alison CouttsWishing Wanda and the entire family peace in this difficult time.
- Paul McDonald