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Milford Thomas Adlam, of Ayton, passed away on Thursday, December 11th, 2025, at the Hanover and District Hospital. He was 85. Born in Bentinck Township on March 6, 1940, to the late Thomas and Gladys (nee Fursman) Adlam. Predeceased by his beloved wife Darlene (nee Barton) Adlam and his daughter Paula. Loving father of Susan (James) of Thornbury and Terri (Dave) of Waterloo. Proud Papa of 4 grandchildren Keira and Roane Morrow and Jenna and Cole Hickling.
The family would like to express gratitude for the compassionate care provided by Dr. Kaila Lassaline and Dr. Ian Eckensweiler and to the exceptional staff at the Hanover and District Hospital.
Milford (Mr. A) started teaching in a one-room school in Hampden and will be remembered as a teacher who taught at Normanby Community School in Ayton for 29 years. Milf will be remembered as being instrumental in bringing both minor hockey and minor ball to Ayton and surrounding areas in the early 70’s while earning his bachelor’s degree part time from Wilfrid Laurier University and finding time to both coach hockey and play Intermediate ball himself. Milf became an avid golfer and especially loved Pike Lake Golf Course and the many golf trips with friends. Milf looked forward to card nights in Ayton in which he was a member for over 20 years, and especially loved playing solo and cribbage.
To honor his wishes, cremation has taken place, and a private family inurnment will be held in the spring at Trinity Lutheran Cemetery- Ayton. A time to gather and celebrate will also be held in the spring to be announced later.
As an expression of sympathy, memorial donations to the Ayton Lions Club would be appreciated by the family.
Susan and Terri - sincere sympathy to both of you on the passing of your father - many fond memories of all of you and a lot of good laughs between us neighbours - hugs to both of you. Shirley, Dave and Trish
- SHIRLEY WEBERTruly one of the GREATS when it came to teaching math! I'm sure it is hard to believe, for anyone who knows me…once I got 100% on a math test in his class in Grade 8. I don't know who was more excited, Mr Adlam or My Mother! I will never forget that test! Mr Adlam was a great man who made Normanby a very special place to learn!
- Louise SchenkSusan, Terri and family,
Arlene and I were so sad to hear about the passing of your dad. We would like to express our deepest condolences. I first got to know Milf while teaching at Normanby C. S. and very much enjoyed working with him on staff. During our retirement years, we reconnected and spent time playing cribbage and pool at our respective homes. I always looked forward to these get-togethers even though it was impossible to beat him at a game of pool! Arlene & I hope that your fond memories and the love/support of family & friends help you through what must be a very difficult time!
Rick Henry
My condolences to the Family.
- Kevin ChittickSo many fond memories of playing with Milf on the Ayton fastball team for a few years. I remember him as a fiery competitor with a wicked fastball.
My condolences to the family.
Sorry to hear of "Milf's passing. He was my grade 8 teacher at Normanby Central school in Ayton back in the early '80s. R.I.P.
- Tom DaweSusan and family so sorry for your loss. Ev Byers
- Ev ByersWe were very sorry to hear of Milford's passing and send our sincere condolences to Susan & Terri & their families. We spent many years bowling, & snowmobiling with Milford & Darlene.
- Ron & Dahl ClarridgeSorry to learn of the passing of Mr. Adlam. I had him as a teacher in the early 70s at Normandy Public and as a hockey coach at the then newly built Arena ..... I know he has made lasting impressions on a lot of his students
- Henry HopfOur deepest sympathies to you all
Prayers and love 🙏🕊️❤️
My sincere condolences to you, Susan, Terri and families on the loss of your Dad. He played a very important role in the adolescent years of so many kids - lots of trips to Niagara Falls! I have good memories.
- Yvonne MagwoodPlayed many ball games and rounds of golf with Milf. My Condolences to his Family,he will be missed!
- Robert HUBBARDTerri my condolences to you and your family.
Susan, Terri and families,
We are so sorry to learn about the recent passing of your father and grandfather. Milf taught me math and remember our interactions fondly. It is not easy to lose a well loved Dad! We will be thinking about you as you mourn his loss this holiday season. May many happy memories flood your mind!
Dear Susan and Terri and families. I am so sorry for the profound loss of your wonderful father/ grandfather. I remember him, as my grade 8 math teacher, and as the father of my friend, Paula. My sincere condolences to each of you.
- Carol van der HeideWe are so very sorry to learn of the passing of Milf. Our sincere condolences to all of his family. He was my (Lorraine) grade 8 teacher at S.S. # 8, Hampden, many years ago.
Al & Lorraine Morrow
Sorry for your loss Susan and Terri. Your father was one of my favourite teachers at Normanby.
- Marla LembkeMy deepest sympathy to Susan and Terri for your loss. I had your dad for a teacher.
- linda wettlauferSorry for your loss. I remember Mr. Adlam as we required to address him. He was my teacher in 1963-64 at SS 7 Downie in the old eight grade school house. I well remember he drove a cool new black Ford convertible red interior I believe. I have always had the hope that I could catch up with him again. My sympathy to his family.
- Nancy Hotson
